Perfectly Imperfect and Ok With That!

I will be writing more about my journey but I wanted to make sure I sent a quick update. Thank you for the kind words and calls. Here we go... Health Condition Reveal Today I underwent  surgery today on both eyes for adult strabismus.   (... which Is???) There are a lot of words interchanged for what it really is but essentially it’s the misalignment of the eyes affecting about  4% of the US population . For me, one eye would focus  in one direction, the other in the other direction, I work really hard to pick the most consistent image and go with that one. It’s a moment by moment game  your mind plays  with h every single piece of stimulus.  Every.  single. day. After 35 years , game over.  Whether your eyes turn out or in  or both , it creates a situation where you see double And your mind and body are working overtime all the time..  Examples are endless so for context  I’d have you Jour...

Why am I always in nature? I like to wear bright colors I like to be perfumery-  I don’t think nature and i  are friends. However, I find myself there, like tonight, strolling with my man,  pulling a few weeds here and there.  Low and behind - I lift my right arm with a wasp staring at me all black and yellow, style, do not insert the song it wasn’t funny…all I could pray was   Please don’t Sting  me and Off my fore arm please. Scary as crap ever 😩

So there’s this thing you always here when you become a parent. “There’s not a book on how to parent “ . Thatssss right. Duh But what I’m going to provide is a 3 point check  for the single mom, hell single parent of any kind, wondering why you want to pull your hair out and ending with reminding you like, don’t totally do that Are you spoiling the child sparing the rod checkpoint Your kid is Kind of sorta entitled acting. Yes they are. Get over it. It sounds shitty when you say it but it’s true. That little darling if you  count it has  got approximately 4 to 6 adult at all times making sure they are OK. It only takes about two? In most kids lives but they get like 4 to 6. Depending on the situation is or come prized of the original parents the stepparents and sometimes even adult children or grandparents sets of grandparents - Click insert I had one grandma on one side of the family and one grandpa. I felt very blessed and feel very blessed to have my grandma...